The Best Pope Francis Quotes on Marriage: the Family, the Threats and the Solutions

This is the second in a series of posts about supporting marriage as intended by God while loving all of God’s children. Join us at the March for Marriage this Saturday.

By: Erin Healy

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On the Relationship Between Man and Woman:

“In these days, as you reflect on the complementarity between man and woman, I urge you to emphasize yet another truth about marriage: that the permanent commitment to solidarity, fidelity and fruitful love responds to the deepest longings of the human heart.”

Pope Francis, Meeting with the Families on the Mall of Asia, Manila, Philippines, January 16, 2015

“The earth is filled with harmony and trust when the alliance between man and woman is lived properly. And if man and woman seek it together, between themselves, and with God, without a doubt they will find it.”

Pope Francis, April 15, 2015, General Audience, Saint Peter’s Square

“I wonder if the crisis of collective trust in God, which does us so much harm, and makes us pale with resignation, incredulity and cynicism, is not also connected to the crisis of the alliance between man and woman.”

Pope Francis, April 15, 2015, General Audience, Saint Peter’s Square

“In order to resolve the problems in their relationships, men and women need to speak to one another more, listen to each other more, get to know one another better, love one another more. They must treat each other with respect and cooperate in friendship.”

Pope Francis, April 15, 2015, General Audience, Saint Peter’s Square

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On Redefining of Marriage:

“The family is also threatened by growing efforts on the part of some to redefine the very institution of marriage, by relativism, by the culture of the ephemeral, by a lack of openness to life.”

Pope Francis, Meeting with the Families on the Mall of Asia, Manila, Philippines, January 16, 2015

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On Combating Modern Ideologies of Marriage:

“Let us think especially of the young people who represent our future: it is important that they should not let the harmful mentality of the temporary affect them, but rather that they be revolutionaries with the courage to seek strong and lasting love..”

Pope Francis, November 17, 2014, Synod Hall Address to Participants in the International Colloquium on the Complementarity between Man and Woman

“I would like to say one thing about this: we must not fall into the trap of being limited by ideological concepts. The family is an anthropological fact, and consequently a social, cultural fact, etc. We cannot qualify it with ideological concepts which are compelling at only one moment in history, and then decline.”

Pope Francis, November 17, 2014, Synod Hall Address to Participants in the International Colloquium on the Complementarity between Man and Woman

“On this human basis, sustained by the grace of God, it is possible to plan a lifelong marital and familial union. The marital and familial bond is a serious matter, and it is so for everyone not just for believers. I would urge intellectuals not to leave this theme aside, as if it had to become secondary in order to foster a more free and just society.”

Pope Francis, April 15, 2015, General Audience, Saint Peter’s Square

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On the Art of Accompaniment:

“[W]e need a church capable of walking at people’s side, of doing more than simply listening to them; a church that accompanies them on their journey; a church able to make sense of the ‘night’ contained in the flight of so many of our brothers and sisters from Jerusalem; a church that realizes that the reasons why people leave also contain reasons why they can eventually return. But we need to know how to interpret, with courage, the larger picture.”

Pope Francis, July 28, 2013, Meeting with the Cardinals and Bishops of Brazil and the Presidency of the National Conference of Bishops of Brazil 

Although it sounds obvious, spiritual accompaniment must lead others ever closer to God, in whom we attain true freedom. Some people think they are free if they can avoid God; they fail to see that they remain existentially orphaned, helpless, homeless. They cease being pilgrims and become drifters, flitting around themselves and never getting anywhere. To accompany them would be counterproductive if it became a sort of therapy supporting their self–absorption and ceased to be a pilgrimage with Christ to the Father.

Pope Francis, November 24, 2013, Evangelii Gaudium

“One who accompanies others has to realize that each person’s situation before God and their life in grace are mysteries which no one can fully know from without. The Gospel tells us to correct others and to help them to grow on the basis of a recognition of the objective evil of their actions (cf. Mt 18:15), but without making judgments about their responsibility and culpability (cf. Mt 7:1; Lk 6:37). Someone good at such accompaniment does not give in to frustrations or fears. He or she invites others to let themselves be healed, to take up their mat, embrace the cross, leave all behind and go forth ever anew to proclaim the Gospel. Our personal experience of being accompanied and assisted, and of openness to those who accompany us, will teach us to be patient and compassionate with others, and to find the right way to gain their trust, their openness and their readiness to grow.”

Pope Francis, November 24, 2013, Evangelii Gaudium

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On the Consequences of Rejecting Marriage:

“Marriage and the family are in crisis today. We now live in a culture of the temporary, in which more and more people reject marriage as a public obligation. This revolution of customs and morals has often waved ‘the flag of freedom,’ but it has, in reality, brought spiritual and material devastation to countless human beings, especially the poorest and most vulnerable.”

Pope Francis, November 17, 2014, Synod Hall Address to Participants in the International Colloquium on the Complementarity between Man and Woman

“It is ever more evident that the decline of the culture of marriage is associated with increased poverty and a host of other social ills that disproportionately affect women, children and the elderly. It is always they who suffer the most in this crisis.”

Pope Francis, November 17, 2014, Synod Hall Address to Participants in the International Colloquium on the Complementarity between Man and Woman

(CNS photo/Paul Haring)

(CNS photo/Paul Haring)

On the Solution to the Threat Against the Family:

“Every threat to the family is a threat to society itself. The future passes through the family. So protect your families! Protect your families! See in them your country’s greatest treasure and nourish them always by prayer and the grace of the sacraments.”

Pope Francis, Meeting with the Families on the Mall of Asia, Manila, Philippines, January 16, 2015

“Families will always have their trials, but may you never add to them! Instead, be living examples of love, forgiveness and care. Be sanctuaries of respect for life, proclaiming the sacredness of every human life from conception to natural death. What a gift this would be to society, if every Christian family lived fully its noble vocation!”

Pope Francis, Meeting with the Families on the Mall of Asia, Manila, Philippines, January 16, 2015

For more on Pope Francis’ advice on marriage, family life, parenthood and to young adults seeking to be married, click here.

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